The heartbreak that changed my life…
Years ago, I went to Hong Kong on a leisure trip before enlistment into the Singapore military
My ex-girlfriend and I had an argument on text message whilst I was there
In FIVE odd days, she and I broke up through text message.
I flew off on an airplane still having a girlfriend I had a lot of love for... and landed days back in Singapore without one
I couldn’t believe I got dumped through text message. That led to two entire years of sadness, grief and feelings of no confidence.
I then took it upon myself to master social skills casual dating and long term relationships. I seek-ed out coaches, mentors and peers for my social romantic and professional life.
That led on an entire decade of transformation
I started out as a Junior College drop out. Then the underperforming University student who scrapped through his studies.
I also came from a financially humble background. In my younger days, my parents told me to “study hard, get a good job and get married”.
That was all not to be.
In my earlier twenties, I obsessed over casual dating success.
I stayed single for the most part of my twenties. I dated different romantic partners and explored different countries, cultures.
Yes it was a period of growth. Novel in fact! Yet as I entered my thirties, I desired for stability and meaning in a long term relationship. I then found a long term romantic partner.
Each step of this process had its challenges.
Today you may consider what I do life coaching or dating and relationships coaching. I prefer not to put a label on it.
I took the emotional and social skills I developed, started a business and brought it to more than $100,000 of sales. I operated the tech, the product, the advertising creatives, the marketing presentations, the sales appointments... as a one man bootstrapped team.
How did I do it?
You may think I am "smart". Or "am good looking". Or "came from a rich family". Look, I only graduated from University at 29 years old.
I spent the majority of my twenties working for SMEs as a cash strapped entrepreneur. I never had the “prestigious corporate job”.
However, I never gave up and I kept working on my social and professional skills. In my early thirties, that led to a role in one of the biggest banks in the region.
It's not about hoping for some agency to magically match you with a romantic partner.
Or swiping right praying for a good match on online applications. It is about taking control and the ability to generate social, romantic opportunities.
It isn't about caving in to unreasonable demands. Or taking disrespect in your long term relationships. It's about generating the intrinsic attraction. So that your relationships do not lose it's passion or chemistry.
Or maybe you're also looking to get that "high status communication skills", the endless motivation, intrinsic confidence that'll impact your professional life.
I know for sure because I created 6 figures of revenue for my company, and millions for others.
Live presentations at the board room, marketing webinars, sales appointments and enterprise level proposals... it all comes down to the ability to influence and impact others.
You may be an aspiring bootstrapped entrepreneur or motivated executive or professional. Or you may already be an established business owner raking in multi millions. Or a high achieving professional in the corporate world...
and you're looking to take your social and romantic life to the next level.
This is through:
